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Take Your Sister with You

I was talking to a friend of mine the other day, and she told me that her young daughters are constantly bickering and crying with each other and I thought about growing up with my sister. 

It seems like every time I left the house, my mother would say, “Take your sister with you”. I thought, “Why? She’s a crybaby!” It wasn’t until I went to college, that I discovered what a wonderful relationship I had with my sister and still do. I started thinking about sibling rivalry and what causes it, especially with girls.

Girls are allowed to be more emotional. I say allowed because behavior is learned, and if you get the attention of your parents by crying when things occur, then you’ll cry to get what you want. Make no mistake, boys do it too. It’s a great parenting idea to practice managing the emotions and the rivalry when they first occur because the longer you let it go on the harder it is to stop the behavior. Kids are brilliant! They watch us carefully and they know what we will respond to and what we won’t.

Try these three tips to help your children manage sibling rivalry:

1. When the whining and crying starts, have the girls sit down and talk with you about what’s going on.

2. Have them figure it out together without your involvement. Get them used to working through their issues with each other.

3. Put them in charge of each other. Usually the oldest is responsible for the younger sister.

On those occasions when the bickering doesn’t end, have your daughters take care of each other’s things by cleaning up each other spaces and doing each other’s chores. Create opportunities for them to spend even more time together as opposed to separating them when they can’t get along.

This is not an overnight parenting tip, and will probably take you several weeks before it begins to work.

Hopefully what you’ll see is that your daughters will start to rely on each other in a way you would never have imagined and the bickering will be a thing of the past.

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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru

Family Dynamics Strategist, Author & Motivational Speaker

May 9, 2018 at 11:27 pm Leave a comment

Colorado Shooter – Where is Your Mother?

Ever wonder what is causing people to resort to so much violence in our world today? I was hardly on my online readings before I saw numerous articles regarding the shooting in Aurora Colorado. My heart goes out to the families of the victims who were killed, as well as the audience who had to witness the insanity that occurred.

I kept wondering what kind of home training the shooter had (or didn’t have), and what was his relationship with his parents, particularly his mom? Feel free to share your thoughts or Tweet me @cgwwbook

For those of you who did not read/hear about this tragedy, here’s a link:

Warm regards,

July 20, 2012 at 2:37 pm 4 comments

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