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Co-Parenting with Heart: Putting Love Before Ego
Co-parenting isn’t easy.
It’s not what most of us envisioned when we started our families. There’s no manual to prepare you for raising a child in two separate households—especially when emotions are high, trust may be broken, and communication feels strained. But here’s the truth: your child didn’t choose this arrangement. They didn’t ask for two birthdays or two sets of rules. They just want to be loved, feel secure, and know that their parents are still a team—no matter what.
That’s what co-parenting is really about. It’s about putting your child’s needs before your pride, your pain, or even your personal preferences.
I remember praying that my ex and I would be able to get along well enough to raise our children into adulthood. That was my deepest hope. Not for reconciliation, not for perfection—just peace. Just enough grace between us to raise whole, healthy kids who knew they were loved by both parents.
And through all the challenges, I learned that successful co-parenting requires three powerful ingredients:
1. Grace.
You won’t always get it right. Neither will your co-parent. You may disagree on discipline, bedtime routines, or even hairstyles. But offering each other grace—especially in front of your child—can create a ripple of peace that calms the storm.
2. Communication.
This one is hard. But healthy communication is the foundation of any working co-parenting relationship. It’s not about being friends—it’s about being functional. Stick to the point. Stay respectful. Use texts or emails if voice conversations are too heated. And always, always keep the focus on the child.
3. Flexibility.
Sometimes schedules change. Life throws curveballs. And in those moments, choosing flexibility over frustration can be a game-changer. Your child is watching how you respond. They’ll learn that love can be flexible. That being a good parent means sometimes compromising for the greater good.
I won’t pretend it’s simple. Co-parenting means dealing with old wounds while trying to build a new version of “family.” But when you lead with love, when you put your child’s emotional well-being first, you are giving them a powerful gift: the ability to thrive despite the change.
You don’t have to be perfect parents—you just have to be willing partners in parenting.
Let love lead, always.
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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Parent Coach, Author & Speaker
Mothers Are Gifts (Sent From God)
The Christmas season is right around the corner, and as usual, I have a million things to do. 🤯
However, one thing that I do every morning, is to take time to pray, meditate, and do my sit-ups. This time, gives me a chance to get in touch with how I feel about what’s going on in my life, in my business, and just to chill for a minute before the day begins.
Today, as I was reading my Daily Word, I thought about how many ways God has stepped into my life, and either suggested that I reach out to someone, talk to my kids about a concern that I have or let them know they were on my mind. I thought about like mothers, God is always watching us, and it blew me away!
God watching us is a good thing, and I’m glad that I have this spiritual support (God), because as you know, there are days that 1+1 does not equal two. And life doesn’t feel fair and people that you love pass away, or move away.
So, in my quiet moment, I think about how we are gifts to our children and our families. Let’s remember that, throughout our day today, when our child is calling, crying, or needing more than what we think we have to give.
I talk more about spiritual gifts and making family life easier for moms, in my 30 day program: How to Simplify Your Family Life Easier and Effectively.
How to Simplify Your Family Life helps women work on three areas: personal, family and relationships to eliminate burnout, mom guilt and exhaustion.
Once you complete the program, you’ll be able to:
- Create a support system that helps you stay calm and hold onto your temper
- Create and use morning and evening routines to keep our family organized and in order
- Develop easy-to-use phrases and affirmations to respond to stressful comments and reduce mom guilt
- Manage your daily schedule to include a daily activity of fun, rest or relaxation
- Establish healthy life habits (food, exercise, sleep) that you have practiced during the 30 days individually or with an accountability partner
This online course begins January 9, and I’m offering the first 10 moms a Christmas gift of 50% off the retail price if you schedule time with me (and register for the course) by Dec 24th.
The Lord looks down from heaven, and sees the whole human race. On his throne, he observes all who live on the Earth. He made their hearts, so he understands everything they do. (Psalm 33:13-15)
Have a magnificent day! 🌞☀️
C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Parent Coach, Author & Speaker
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