Your Presence is the Gift, Your Wisdom the Legacy
July 2, 2025 at 8:30 am Leave a comment
In a world that celebrates doing, fixing, and achieving, it’s easy for grandparents to feel like they have to “do it all” for their grandchildren—bake the cookies, show up at every event, solve the problems, and protect little hearts from ever hurting.
But let’s take a breath and remember this truth: Your presence is the gift. Your wisdom is the legacy.
As a grandparent, you don’t have to compete with Pinterest-perfect snacks or try to parent all over again. What your grandkids really need—what they will remember long after the toys and treats—is you.
They’ll remember how you made them feel safe. How your hug melted their worries.
How you listened—really listened—without judgment or distraction.
How you shared your stories, even the hard ones, because they helped your grandchildren know they come from strong, resilient people.
I know this because I had a “Goose”.
That’s what I called my grandmother.
If you’ve ever played Hide & Seek, you know the feeling—when you finally reach the “Goose,” you’re safe.
That’s exactly what my grandmother was to me. Her home was peaceful and loving, a soft place to land when life felt too loud. Somehow, she seemed to peer into my soul and just know when my worlds were colliding.
She didn’t have to say much. She was calm, steady, and deeply present.
She was my heart. ❤️✌️
So if you ever wonder whether you’re doing “enough,” remember this: showing up with love and wisdom is enough.
In fact, it’s everything.
💬 Reflect & Share:
Think back to a moment with your grandparent—or a grandparent figure—that left a lasting impression on you. What did they say or do that made you feel deeply loved or understood?
👉🏽 Share your memory in the comments. Or, if you’re a grandparent, tell us: What legacy do you hope to leave your grandchildren?
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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Parent Coach, Author & Speaker
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