Posts tagged ‘Mental health’
Teaching Children to Express Emotions Healthily: 3 Tips…
Creating a safe and open environment is the first step in helping children express their emotions healthily. When children feel understood and supported, they are more likely to share their feelings openly and confidently.
Building Emotional Strength: A Guide for Parents Navigating Anxiety With Their Children
Guest blog provided by Gwen Payne.
When it comes to fostering an emotionally healthy home environment, understanding the profound impact that parental anxiety can have on children is crucial. As parents, this is the first step towards nurturing their resilience and emotional strength. Creating a supportive atmosphere where children can navigate their feelings of anxiety confidently is essential. Today, C. Lynn Williams will delve into several effective strategies designed to help parents recognize signs of anxiety in their children, as well as manage their own stress in ways that promote a positive emotional climate for the entire family.
Signs of Anxiety in Your Child
Vigilance is key in identifying anxiety in children, who may exhibit changes in behavior, mood swings, or physical symptoms such as stomach aches or headaches. By paying close attention to how your child acts in different settings, you can catch early signs of distress. It’s important to approach these signs with openness and without judgment, creating a supportive environment for your child to share their feelings.
Encouraging Open Communication
Creating an environment of open communication and trust is pivotal for supporting your child through moments of anxiety. Strive to make your home a place where your child feels safe discussing their fears and concerns. Active listening and validating their feelings convey understanding and respect, encouraging them to express their worries freely and openly.
Reduce Work Stress
If your current job is causing you anxiety, maybe it’s time to explore how boosting your education could expand your career options. Pursuing online educational opportunities – especially focusing on flexible nurse practitioner programs – could be a great way to earn your online FNP degree. This mode of education not only offers flexibility to manage your caregiving responsibilities but also opens doors to various high-demand fields such as nurse education, informatics, nurse administration, and advanced practice nursing. By tailoring your learning journey to your personal and professional needs, you can alleviate work-related stress and position yourself for a fulfilling career in healthcare, all from the comfort of your home.
Help Children With Coping Skills
Teach your child coping mechanisms and problem-solving skills to handle anxiety-inducing situations with confidence. Introducing strategies such as deep breathing, identifying triggers, and simplifying complex tasks can empower your child. Encouraging them to approach challenges with a problem-solving attitude builds resilience and self-assurance, key components of emotional strength.
Assess & Manage Parental Anxiety
Take time to reflect on your personal anxiety levels and how they might affect your parenting style. Recognizing how your responses to stress can impact your child’s emotional health promotes a thoughtful approach to managing emotions. This self-awareness is essential for reducing the transmission of anxiety to your child and promoting a serene and supportive home atmosphere. By engaging in this introspective process, you can cultivate a healthier dynamic and better support your child’s emotional development.
Prioritizing Parental Self-Care
Self-care is fundamental to effectively managing your anxiety and supporting your child emotionally. Regular exercise, mindfulness practices, and dedicating time to activities you enjoy can drastically enhance your emotional well-being. By making self-care a priority, you ensure that you are emotionally available and supportive of your child’s needs.
Seeking Professional Guidance
If you observe persistent signs of distress in your child, seeking help from mental health professionals may be beneficial. Therapy or counseling can provide both you and your child with strategies to manage anxiety and improve emotional well-being. Professional guidance can be invaluable in navigating the complexities of family anxiety dynamics.
Successfully navigating anxiety with your children involves recognizing their signs of distress, managing your own anxiety, and creating a supportive family environment. Key to this process is open communication, teaching effective coping strategies, and leading by example through healthy stress management practices. By adopting these approaches, you lay the foundation for a resilient and emotionally strong family. Your proactive and aware efforts in managing anxiety can profoundly influence your child’s capacity to thrive emotionally, fostering a sense of confidence and resilience in facing life’s challenges.
C. Lynn Williams is an author, speaker, educator, and parenting coach. Questions? Please email clynn@clynnwilliams.com.
Setting Boundaries As A Way to Manage Your Down Time?
Managing downtime for parents is essential for a healthy work-life balance and family well-being. Setting boundaries helps prioritize needs and emotional well-being. Key points include identifying priorities, communicating needs, scheduling dedicated downtime, creating physical and digital boundaries, learning to say no, leading by example, and being consistent. Setting and respecting boundaries reduces stress and strengthens family connections.
Teaching Your Child to Respond Instead of Reacting
Temper tantrums in young children is expected, until that child grows up and still throws tantrums. Here are tips to help them respond instead of reacting.
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How to Handle the Holiday Blues
Helping others can lift your spirits. Consider volunteering to a charitable cause in your community.
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Tell Yourself You Are Enough
Telling yourself you are enough is a good start to something better.
What Do I Need to Do To Get Your Attention❓
What’s one of the first things you do when you get a moment to yourself? You probably pull out your phone. 📱
There’s so much you can do on your phone. You can have a whole conversation by text or talking. You can play a game, shop or watch one of your favorite shows.
However, when you’re raising children, there’s so much of you that’s required for them to grow up healthy: physically, mentally, and emotionally. Most important is to know what’s going on in their heads.
I was talking to one of my friends about their kids who are under the age of 5. We all agreed that if your child was awake and the house was quiet 🤫, they were probably getting into something! You had to watch them constantly!
As our kids get older, we feel that we don’t have to watch them as closely and assume that things are okay with them. If they weren’t, our kids would tell us. Natural assumption right?
Wrong!
In families today, our children are relying on us to put aside our devices and initiate discussions; listen to what’s going on with them. It’s not easy….
Your teen will talk. They have to be assured that you’re listening and won’t judge them. There can’t be any topic that you won’t discuss with them. Are you willing to talk about anything and everything? Can you listen without letting your facial expressions show how horrified you are with the conversation? 😫🤯
We are living in times where anything is possible and are kids want to explore, try out new and different theories, relationships and experiences. Being able to share their thoughts and concerns with you, helps them put them in perspective. Keeping the lines of communication open, by relating to your child’s thoughts and feelings; asking them what they think – makes all the difference in the world.
Have a meal together; it doesn’t matter which one. First require that all phones and tablets be put away. 2nd requirement: allow your child the freedom to say whatever is on their mind (must be respectful). Ask “Tell me what’s going on”. The first several conversations may be awkward while your kids try to figure out if you’re being honest and whether they can say what they feel. 🤷🏽♀️
Every time I hear or read about another mass shooting; I wonder who the shooter had to talk to within his family. If they shot or killed a family member before taking other lives, I wonder what kind of dysfunction was taking place. Were they able to share the fact that they were being bullied or that they were feeling anti-social? Were they abused? Are they suffering from a mental illness that went unaddressed?
I realize these are simple questions for complex issues. But what I do know is that young people have lots of challenges going on in their lives these days. We as parents can’t solve them all. However, being watchful, following your intuition (if you feel something is wrong, it is) and making it safe to tell you what’s going on, goes a long way to minimize issues that cause our kids to self-harm or harm others. Peace.
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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Parent Coach, Author & Speaker
Shifting Your Mood Helps
Today I hit a brick wall and my morning wasn’t as sunny as it usually is when I wake up. Meh 😒
A couple of my projects had flopped this week and I had taken on too many assignments that were all due at the same time. Some of my project results weren’t spectacular (which is what I expect) and I felt blah. 😕
As I sat quietly and expectantly, I listened to the very wise person that lives inside of me – my Spirit.
I tell myself that I’m a good person, God loves me, and I love me. Those words help loosen any feelings of defeat or sadness that had caused this ‘Wednesday Blues’.
I read today’s scripture from my bible app (a few times) and my mood starts to shift… I’m feeling… better… If this has happened to you, how do handle these unwelcome feelings?
Here are eight ways to shift yourself out of a Bad Mood:
1. Be Here Now. Focus on the present moment. …
2. Be Silly. …
3. Practice “Pivoting” …
4. Take a Walk. …
5. Lend a Hand. …
6. Laugh More. …
7. This, Too, Shall Pass. …
8. Indulge Yourself.
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/8-ways-to-shift-a-bad-mood-and-feel-better-fast_b_8201180/amp
Taking time for yourself is monumental to staying sane – during the best of times, but especially during the COVID-19 quarantine that we find ourselves experiencing.
Our family relies on us to stay balanced, happy and upbeat (fun). There is nothing fun about feeling ‘blue’ or depressed. Stay encouraged.
C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Now That I have Time to Think
One of the benefits of COVID-19 is the time that I am taking to motivate myself.
#selfcare #morningroutine
This Was A New Lesson For Me
Have you ever had one of those weeks?
You know, the one where everything goes sideways?
I talk about it in this video blog. Click Here
Enjoy!
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C. Lynn Williams
Family Dynamics Strategist, Author & Speaker
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