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Help Your Child Grow a Passion for Learning Using These Strategies
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Guest post by Gwen Payne, info@invisiblemoms.com
Encouraging a passion for learning in children is essential for helping them thrive in an ever-changing world. This passion not only equips them with the adaptability to face new challenges but also nurtures their curiosity and creativity. By fostering an environment that celebrates inquiry and discovery, parents can create the foundation for a lifelong love of exploration and growth. The strategies shared here can be applied year-round, including during school breaks, such as holidays and summer vacations, providing children with exciting opportunities to continue learning and growing outside the classroom.
Create a Balanced Learning Routine
Creating a routine that balances structured learning with regular breaks and varied activities is essential for fostering a child’s enthusiasm for education. By incorporating short breaks, such as 15-minute intervals, children can recharge, enhancing their focus and positivity when they return to their tasks. Integrating diverse activities throughout the day not only keeps children engaged but also prevents the monotony that can lead to burnout. Encouraging mindfulness practices, like breathing exercises, can further help children clear their minds and concentrate on what truly matters.
Lead by Example
Your own educational journey can be a powerful tool in inspiring a love for learning in your children. By demonstrating curiosity and enthusiasm for acquiring new knowledge, you set a valuable example. If you’ve been considering further education, completing an online psychology degree offers the flexibility to balance studies with other commitments. This pursuit not only enhances your understanding of human behavior but also showcases the importance of lifelong learning. Engaging in higher education can ignite a passion for knowledge within your family, creating an environment where learning is cherished and valued.
Explore Museums and Science Centers
Regular visits to museums, libraries, and science centers can play a crucial role in nurturing your child’s curiosity and love for learning. These environments provide hands-on and inquiry-based activities that are particularly effective for developing critical thinking and communication skills. Engaging with exhibits allows children to explore objects and discuss their characteristics, which can be especially beneficial for gifted children. By incorporating these visits into your routine, you not only support your child’s educational growth but also keep their passion for learning alive.
Discover Math and Science in the Kitchen
Engaging your children in cooking activities is a fantastic way to nurture their love for learning, especially in math and science. By involving them in measuring ingredients, you introduce concepts of volume and fractions, which are foundational in mathematics. As they follow recipes, they learn the importance of sequence and precision, skills crucial in both math and science. Additionally, cooking offers a practical demonstration of chemical reactions, such as how heat transforms ingredients like butter and syrup, making them more viscous. This hands-on approach not only makes learning enjoyable but also helps children understand and retain complex concepts more effectively.
Encourage Reading Through Choice
Encouraging children to choose their own reading materials can greatly enhance their enthusiasm for learning and sense of independence. When kids select books that resonate with their interests, they are more likely to engage deeply with the content, nurturing a lifelong passion for reading. This approach not only supports the development of independent reading habits but also boosts comprehension skills, as children are more motivated to understand texts they enjoy. Offering books that are appropriately challenging and promoting exploration across various genres can further cultivate this independence.
Embrace Interactive E-Books
To nurture a lifelong love of learning in your child, consider incorporating interactive e-books and audiobooks into their reading routine. These digital tools transform traditional reading into a more engaging and accessible experience, accommodating children across various reading levels. Interactive e-books often include features like animations and sound effects, which can captivate young readers and maintain their interest. Audiobooks, on the other hand, provide an auditory experience that can enhance comprehension and vocabulary, especially for auditory learners or those who struggle with traditional reading.
Engage in Community Service
Engaging your children in community service projects is a powerful way to nurture their love for learning while equipping them with essential life skills. By participating in activities that resonate with their interests, children can develop empathy, teamwork, and problem-solving abilities. These projects offer a unique opportunity for children to connect with diverse individuals, forming meaningful relationships that enhance their sense of belonging and happiness. Encouraging your children to explore community service projects that align with their passions helps them thrive in a collaborative and interconnected world.
Fostering a love for learning in children is a journey that requires patience, creativity, and commitment. By embracing diverse strategies and creating a supportive environment, parents can inspire their children to view learning as a lifelong adventure.
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How to Help Your Child Develop Independence and Accountability
Helping children learn personal responsibility is one of the most important lessons they can carry into adulthood.
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Setting Boundaries As A Way to Manage Your Down Time?
Managing downtime for parents is essential for a healthy work-life balance and family well-being. Setting boundaries helps prioritize needs and emotional well-being. Key points include identifying priorities, communicating needs, scheduling dedicated downtime, creating physical and digital boundaries, learning to say no, leading by example, and being consistent. Setting and respecting boundaries reduces stress and strengthens family connections.
Dinner Time is a Great Time to Talk
Now that the school year has started, I think about the conversations that my family and I had. We didn’t have them every night, but considering how strict my parents were, our dinner time talks were pretty liberal.
They didn’t always include both parents, and the “talks” continued once my parents divorced. Usually my mother, would start the “conversation” for whatever topic my brother, sister and I, wanted to talk about. Usually it was a cross-section of just about anything from politics to what time curfew should be; most important, there were no taboo topics.
The beauty about the talks is that everybody extroverts and introverts (my brother and me) felt comfortable talking. By the way, if you have kids who don’t like to talk a lot, then you say things that are funny or related but slightly crazy, and see what your family thinks. Hopefully everybody starts laughing and all of a sudden the dinner time talking has started.
I think what I like most about conversations during meals, is that you have the distraction of eating and the conversations don’t seem as serious.
Depending on your parenting style, these conversations are a great time to learn more about your children and for them to learn about you as well, and to help you pick up on things that you will want to follow up on privately with whichever kid needs it, as well as sharing your views and family values.
There are lots of benefits to dinner time talk. At the very least, it helps you stay connected (with your kids), if you allow the conversations to flow easily. The more obvious reason is hopefully your child will more easily share concerns or issues with you, that are not easy to talk about. 🙇🏽♀️
If the best time to have a conversation with your your kids, is at breakfast, then talk at breakfast. 🥞☕️
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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Parent Coach, Author & Speaker
HOW’S YOUR BACK-TO-SCHOOL ROUTINE?
As the Back-to-School commercials roll on your local TV channels, you wonder where the time went. A lot is changing this fall 2021 school year.
Many school districts are replacing remote learning with in-person learning. Some are offering a mixture of both – remote on specific days and hybrid on others. Whatever school discipline you have decided, it’s time to help your child prepare for a new routine!
This week I’ll talk about a great nighttime routine to help your child get used to the routine of getting enough sleep and waking up.
Step 1: Change their bedtime.
Summer is such a welcome time for kids unless they have summer camp or part-time jobs. They get to play outside, stay up late and sleep in. Change their bedtime now instead of waiting until the weekend before school starts, so they get adjusted.
Step 2: Change their wake-up time.
This is probably a villainous move on the part of a parent, but very necessary when it comes to helping your child get ready for school. When you change your child’s wake-up time, give them a morning schedule to follow.
Make it age appropriate:
- yoga (for kids)
- make-up their bed
- write/check-off personal goals
- shower
- eat breakfast
- clean up their room
- chores you may have for them
- FUN time
Step 3: Complete any pre-Fall school assignments.
Many teachers send home assignments for their new students that must be completed and submitted either the 1st day of school or during that first week of classes. If your child procrastinates, this is GREAT opportunity to complete an assignment and have it ready to submit on time. It will make them feel good about themselves as well.
Remember to make time for fun whether it’s outside or inside.
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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
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I Heard Family…
Last week I watched the Democratic National Convention and Vice-President candidate Kamala Harris (D) spoke about how much she admired her mother and grandmother. She talked about kids going back to school whether in person or remotely and how important going to school was. She also talked about how challenging it is for parents and teachers during this time. There are so many questions to answer like what happens if I send my child to school and she gets the virus? Or what happens when I begin teaching my face-2-face classes and I catch the virus? As we head into the fall 2020 school year, these are questions that parents and teachers have.
Everytime Senator Harris spoke I heard family. The importance of family! Mothers! Fathers! Grandmothers! In many households, parents have chosen to homeschool. In other households, the parents have to leave home and their children are either going to school, or sitting in front of a computer screen and learning virtually. No matter which story is ours, we are concerned with keeping our children (and ourselves) safe from coronavirus.
When Senator Harris spoke of her mother, it reminded me of how much my mother supported me throughout my high school, college, grad school career.
Her support meant everything to me, even though (at times) I felt that she was overbearing and too
strict. When I didn’t understand a school topic, if she couldn’t explain it, she found someone that could. With her guidance, my dad’s, aunts, uncles and grandparents, I am here today able to talk with you about the importance of family support.
As Senator Harris said, getting ready this school year is challenging whether you are the parent or the teacher. But what I know is that our children are counting on us to learn and thrive. We can give them that whether we are college grads or high school dropouts. We may not have all (or even some) of the answers, but let’s start with the three points listed below. ⇓
Commit to these things:
- Your commitment to helping your child get online daily
- Asking your child questions to help him think critically
- Taking time to have fun. Play with your child and learn from him/her
- Be a good listener
- Be willing to learn new things
Know that this is an usual time, so have lots of teachable moments, fun, and learning something new times! Be patient with yourself, your situation and your children. Make memories that your children will talk about when they grow up.
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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Parent Coach, Author & Speaker
Hey Parents What Are You Wearing?
When I was growing up, there were certain things that I could wear while playing outside (like shorts) that I couldn’t wear off the block. My mom and dad were really particular about how we looked and the impressions we would make on other people.
Not only was my mother specific about what we wore or didn’t wear, she and dad had a specific way they dressed as well. One of the family rules was no rollers out of the house. which simply meant that your hair was combed and you had on appropriate clothes and shoes. My father was formal (old school) and wore a shirt, usually a tie and pants. Depending on where he was going, he had on a brim. The only time he had on house slippers was in the house.
There was no way my mother would’ve come out of the house with her house slippers or anything that looked like pajamas either. As she put it, she would never want to embarrass her family’s name or ours.
Fast forward to today’s times where some parents show up to their child’s school dressed really bad! So I wasn’t surprised to read the article yesterday where the Houston principal, Carlotta Brown gave her parents a dress code when coming to school. She was tired of them showing up inappropriately dressed and setting bad examples for her students.
To all of the haters who disagreed with the principal’s rules, saying that it was discrimination against those parents who had low income. I disagree! Have one dress or shirt (blouse) and pair of pants that looks respectable. And wear that – even if you wear the same outfit every time you attend a school event.
It’s really about the kids and the role that you play in your child’s life. It is completely inappropriate to wear see-through clothing around adolescents – your child’s or someone else‘s. Talk about early sex education! “Hey John, I could see through your Mom’s blouse! She’s hot!” How embarrassing is that? Also leave the hair bonnets at home too. They are just to protect the hair while you sleep.
I know you believe that as an adult you can do whatever you want.
You can!
Just remember that everything you do reflects back on your children and sets an example (for the rest of their lives) whether you like it or not.
Just my two cents worth.
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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Family Dynamics Strategist, Author & Speaker
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Kids Do the Darnedest Things
I have the cutest great nephew, and one day he said s*~t. He was two years old and we couldn’t understand where he heard a word like that and could repeat it so clearly. Periodically, swear words are sprinkled throughout his conversations especially when he gets frustrated. It doesn’t really matter where he picked up his irreverent language, just know that he was imitating someone close to him (that he respected).
Young children are like sponges and they pick up our words, phrases and mannerisms so easily. They watch us to determine how they should act, and then they surprise us with an exact replica of ourselves. That’s one of the things they do quite well without any prompting from us.
I said young children didn’t I? Actually it doesn’t matter how old our child is, they imitate our behaviors whether positive or negative.
Both my parents smoked like sailors as I was growing up. The first semester that I was home from college, I lit up a cigarette in front of my mother. She was horrified and asked “Why are you smoking?” I told her that since she did it, I’d decided to smoke too. Then we had a conversation about her addiction to cigarettes. She begged me to stop and that was the first (and last) cigarette I smoked.
Here are five thoughts to remember as your kids continue to grow:
- Watch your language
- Manage your temper (no popping off)
- Model kindness
- Be open (for them to talk)
- LISTEN
Enjoy your family and have a Happy Thanksgiving.
C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Have You Established A School Routine?
When I was in elementary and high school, my mother started preparing my siblings and me for our 1st day of school several weeks in advance. She changed our bedtimes and reduced our outside playing time to prepare us for the new school year. It didn’t make sense at the time, but the transition to school was smoother and we weren’t sleepy in the mornings. 
Once I had children of my own, having a routine, made a lot of sense. And as a former high school teacher, I could tell which students had routines at home and those who didn’t. Email me back if you want to know how I knew….
If you are dreading the first week of school and wondering how you are going to prepare for a new routine where everyone is on time to where they are going – l CAN HELP!
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Below is a link to preschool, elementary and high school routines that I created to help you help your child get into the groove of school as easily as possible.
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If your current routines aren’t working to your satisfaction, build a new set of routines this year. The routines will teach your children how to manage themselves and their time for better success in school. Have a great school year!
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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Family Dynamics Strategist, Author & Speaker
How to Successfully Communicate With Adult Children
When my children were little, we discussed lots of different topics with them and encouraged them to talk (to us) about anything. Things that were going on in their school, with their classmates, in our family and current events were all fair game. It didn’t matter whether we liked or agreed with their thoughts or not, we encouraged them to talk about whatever was going on in their lives. 
I believed if we listened to their small issues, they would be comfortable talking with us about their bigger (scarier or life threatening) issues. While I’m sure we didn’t hear everything that occurred in their lives, listening taught me three amazing lessons!
- Like what my kids liked
- Be open-minded
- Ask questions of interest
These three tips allowed me to stay relevant with my children as they became adults. As I approached adulthood, I had secrets that I never shared with my mom or dad. I didn’t want to be judged or reminded, so I didn’t share many things that were going on in my life. As much as I loved my parents, I didn’t want to hear them say, “OMG why’d you do that?” No adult really wants to hear that.
However, I wanted a more open relationship with my children, especially as they became adults. I wanted to stay relevant in their lives. As an example, I liked rock music growing up. When my son realized that I was OPEN to listening to grunge and alternative music, he would in
vite me to listen to new songs that he liked. “Hey Mom, listen to this.” Keeping that doorway open into his adulthood, allowed to me ask him, “So what’s new?” He could choose to either tell me about some new music he liked, or share a more personal thought or concern.
The same was true with my daughters. I wasn’t afraid to share some of my ‘young woman’ mistakes with them, hoping they wouldn’t make those same mistakes. In turn, they were comfortable sharing their life with me. On the way to learning more about them, I continue to learn more about myself. Isn’t life grand?
It’s never too late to start a conversation with your children. If it’s a new experience, start small, but be consistent. The rewards will change your relationship in a positive way.
Interested in learning more about your family’s dynamics? Contact me – Ms. Parent Guru to receive information about my inspiring parenting programs for Aging Parents, Mothers and Daughters, Mothers and their Sons, Fathers and Daughters or Fathers and their Sons.
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C. Lynn Williams, #MsParentguru
Family Dynamics Strategist, Author & Speaker
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