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Understanding and Addressing the Symptoms of Parenting Fatigue

July 27, 2022 at 10:01 pm 1 comment

Guest post by Gwen Payne, invisiblemoms.com

As the parent of a special needs child, you likely face unique challenges as you juggle your parenting duties with other responsibilities in your life. Whether your child has a physical, mental, or developmental disability, the daily demands of parenting can result in prolonged stress and exhaustion. 

The symptoms of parenting fatigue and burnout can significantly impact your energy levels, relationships, and overall well-being. Understanding your fatigue levels can help you develop a self-care plan to combat your symptoms. 

Assessing Your Levels of Fatigue

Before taking steps to address your symptoms, it helps to understand your levels of exhaustion and how they could be impacting other areas of your life. When attempting to assess the extent of your fatigue, there are several factors to consider: 

• Sleep quantity and quality
• Physical activity
• Relationship satisfaction
• Parenting effectiveness
• Depressive symptoms
• Social support

How you are sleeping can tell you a lot about your emotional and mental state. Perhaps you have difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep, even when you feel exhausted. Trouble sleeping might indicate that your symptoms are more than just physical tiredness. 

Chronic stress and fatigue can also affect feelings of satisfaction in your relationships, parenting duties, or work. If you start to experience a lack of fulfillment from things that used to motivate you, you could be spreading yourself too thin.

Once you understand the level of fatigue you are dealing with, you can begin to make an effort to combat it. 

Addressing Your Fatigue With a Self-Care Plan

When you feel overwhelmed, it helps to step back and take a breath. According to experts, a self-care routine is vital for managing your fatigue levels and reducing stress. Make time to enjoy a bubble bath, watch your favorite movie, or treat yourself to a snack. Engage in self-care activities that help you feel happy and relaxed:

• Meditate
• Listen to music
• Talk to a friend
• Read a book
• Eat your favorite meal
• Take a walk outside
• Engage in hobbies
• Start a project

Pursuing a personal goal can also help motivate you and encourage feelings of satisfaction, fulfillment, and direction. Whether you take up a hobby or learn something new, make it a point to invest in yourself.

Balance is key to a successful personal care plan. Avoid over-indulging in self-care, which can cause you to neglect other duties. When leaning on your support network, be mindful of their limitations to avoid overburdening them.

With so much on your plate, it is easy to get overwhelmed and neglect your needs. When you fail to take care of yourself, you limit your capacity to care for others in your life.

Knowing When To Seek Professional Help

When your parenting duties lead to emotional stress and exhaustion, underlying conditions might be contributing to your symptoms. It’s not uncommon for parents of special needs children to suffer from depression or anxiety. A coach like C. Lynn Williams can help you develop strategies to improve your situation.

While not appropriate for everyone, a professional could give you prescription medication for depression to help with your symptoms and monitor your treatment to ensure a positive outcome. Since you may struggle to find time for an office visit, you can use online telehealth services to set up same-day appointments to discuss the matter. These services can also connect with your local pharmacy for your prescriptions.

Being the parent of a special needs child can be a full-time job that can quickly become overwhelming. Understanding your fatigue levels can help you manage your symptoms through self-care or recognize when it might be time to seek professional help. By taking steps to tackle your parenting fatigue, you can better provide the support your child needs.

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